Potty Training Tips

Be patient

Some toddlers catch onto the whole “potty trained” concept a lot faster than others whether they are fast learners or not simply because some toddlers just aren’t interested in using the potty.  They may feel like it’s an inconvenience to stop playing to use the potty, or they may be afraid of sitting on the potty or toilet seat.  For these and so many other reasons, you need patience when potty training your little one.

Begin with taking them to the toilet as much as you can.  If possible try, when at home, to get them in the restroom every ten minutes and then slowly work your way up to 15 and then 20 minute intervals.  And remember, mastering pooping typically takes more time than learning to pee on the potty so be patient.

Don’t throw in the Towel

Many parents have tried every method under the sun to get their little one to use the potty, only to have them do good for a day or two and then revert right back to needing diapers.  Don’t throw in the towel just yet.  All children eventually catch on, just at different ages and stages in life.  Some toddlers will even approach you and let you know they’re ready to start using the potty when you least expected it or were ready to give up.  Sometimes your little one will begin showing an interest in the bathroom or will want to be changed immediately after soiling their diaper.

Flattery

Flattery will get you everywhere – at least when it comes to toddlers.  Little one’s love attention, praise, and positive reinforcement so it only makes sense to use these to your advantage when potty training.  Whenever your little one uses the potty or wipes themselves, make sure to give them lots of praise and encouragement.  However, if they make a mistake and pee or poop on themselves, never scold them or make them feel bad about it – simply encourage them to do better the next time.

Find out what they’re afraid of

Many children feel vulnerable or are afraid of sitting on a toilet seat.  They may be worried about falling into the hole, the height of the toilet, of getting stuck, or even being flushed away.  There are many reasons a toddler may fear the toilet whether it be a standard toilet with a removable potty seat attachment, or a small potty made specifically for potty training.  Find out what your little one is afraid of and find out how to help them deal with that fear.  You may need to start them off on a potty seat made specifically for potty training.  Or you may need to wait until he or she gets off the pot before flushing.

Rewards and Gifts

Who doesn’t like gifts or rewards?  There are lots of creative ways to reward your little ones for a job well done.  Some of these rewards may include stickers, pennies or coins in a piggy bank, Legos, or the promise of new, pretty or exciting underwear (this one worked really well with both my niece and nephew).

When all else fails, try, try, try again; and remember to be patient and stay positive!